Let me just state right up front that I love men in general and my husband in particular. Sure, men are hairy and loud. They fart and think that belching the alphabet is funny and they scratch their privates while in public but lets face it, where would we be without them?
Yes, I know that women are equally as awesome ( and obnoxious, in different ways)
Yes, I know that women can do all that men can do.
I also know that we need to start taking the time to appreciate each other more.
I read 81 Things that Dads do that make us Weak at the knees which made me smile and remember raising my kids.
That post then inspired Steven Lake to write My Wife tells me Ten Things I do that Make her Happy
And now I’m writing my own list.
10 Things My Husband does that make me weak at the Knees:
(1) Empties the trash. No big deal, no “look what I’m doing for you”. Nope, he just empties the trash. Sure he may not always replace the bin liner but so what?
(2) He is always glad to see me. It doesn’t matter if I am looking frazzled, with my hair pointing in every direction but the one I want it too or all glammed up he always greets me with “Hey Beautiful” . That is a little slice of heaven right there.
(3) He calls me his Life Wife. We are both doing this marriage thing for the second time so that is a vote of confidence in our relationship and our bond. *swoon*
(4) He says “thank you” after every meal. No matter what I cook for him he thanks me for a delicious meal. Every time. *double swoon*
(5) He always checks the car. Putting petrol in the car is about my limit when it comes to car maintenance. So if I am off on a trip he does all the blokey checks; tyres, oil and whatever else needs doing. He also schedules all the servicing after asking me if I need the car that day.
(6) He made it part of our wedding vows to keep me in chocolate and “bling”. He looks at jewelery catalogs more than I do!
(7) He listens. Whenever I am talking to him I get his full attention. He makes eye contact and fully engages with what I am saying regardless of whether it interests him or not.
(8) He sends me texts so I know he’s thinking of me. Once or twice a day I’ll get a text from him just to say “hi”. Some are smutty. some are lovey dovey. Either way I know he’s been thinking of me . *melting*
(9) The way he smiles. Just that. Seeing his face wreathed in joy makes my heart go all gooey inside.
(10) His hugs. He wasn’t much of a hugger when we first got together but now he gives the best hugs ever.
|Bonus (11) Love the way he is sooo gentle with animals.|
Five Things I love about my Sons:
(1) They are not afraid to be totally themselves. They are all different and they are all proudly who they are.
(2) They embrace their soft side. My eldest has four kids and I have seen hi be incredibly gentle and tender with his daughters while encouraging them to be adventurous too. My middle son used to try and organize romantic interludes for my hubby and me when he was 11. Or he would pick flowers for hubby to give me. So sweet
(3) They call their mother. My youngest just had some great news. Who did he call? His Mum. One hour later and we ran out of things to talk about. So grateful that they keep in touch.
(4) They know what I like. Youngest sent me a purple scarf from the US. ( Love purple, love scarves!) Middle son gave me a turquoise Buddha for my birthday ( I now have quite a collection of Buddhas). Eldest sent flowers and photos of my grandy’s.
(5) They all end their calls with “Love you Mum” * just a puddle on the floor*
Three Things I love about my (male) Hairdresser.
(1) He listens. Yup, listening is HUGE. HUGE I tell you!. By simply paying attention I feel validated, heard and valued.
(2) He cares. When my mother in law passed away earlier this year and I had a not-so-great haircut from one of the other stylists at the salon, Richard fixed it for me and made me feel great in the midst of a shitty, shitty time.
(3) He gets me. He understands the look I want to achieve and at the end of cutting my hair he says
” There you are. Now you look more like you.” *swoon*
( If you want to check out his work go here )
Come back next week and I will post my “Ode to Women” for all the Fabulous ladies in my life.
Who do you need to show some appreciation too?
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